The reality of life is full of agonies, mysteries, hurts, disappointment, frustrations, sadness, confusions, and anxiety. But on the beautiful side, you also experienced, joys, happiness, excitements, loves, good surprises, calmness, freedom, etc. from the bright and dark side of life, it's a matter of choice and that choice you make are influenced by your thoughts.
Our thoughts are related to our experiences, upbringing, education, social interaction, knowledge and the environment.
Life can be beautiful or ugly depending on how you perceived it to be. You create your own World. It can be argued that this is easier said than done. Nevertheless, if you are able to achieve the level of awareness and understanding in your own way, you will understand.
The choice is yours. Don't give up when Life throws you with all the difficult challenges and hardship. These are your teachers. There is always light at the end of the tunnel if you continue to accept challenges with confidence and positive attitude.
The transitional dilemma of each stage in our lives from the time we were born is just like a river flowing down Stream. If you take time to reflect as far back as you can, you will be able to experience a different surge of awareness of the dilemmas you had experienced be it happiness or sadness.
Life is a passing moment and Time is the essence of everything. We do not have much time on this earth. Do what is necessary that could enrich your life, be happy, peace of mind and stay healthy.