Letting Go

In Letting Go: The Key to Holding On to Your Marriage, Todd and Amy Underwood offer a Christ-centered marriage resource for couples seeking healing, restoration, and renewed connection. This honest, hope-filled book speaks to couples navigating emotional distance, infidelity, betrayal, trauma, or seasons of disconnection, as well as those who want to strengthen their marriage before things fall apart.

Unlike many Christian marriage books that begin at crisis, Letting Go goes to the source. Through a raw, back-and-forth conversation, Todd and Amy explore how childhood wounds, unhealed trauma, fear, and false beliefs quietly shape marriage patterns over time. Their journey includes separation, surrender, and restoration, offering a real-life testimony of healing through faith, honesty, and God's grace.

This is not a quick-fix marriage guide or a checklist for "fixing" your spouse. Instead, it invites readers to release control, confront unhealthy narratives, and address the survival strategies that undermine intimacy and trust. At its core, this Christian marriage recovery book points couples toward surrender as the pathway to lasting change and emotional healing.

Structured in two parts, Letting Go first shares the Underwoods' personal story, then transitions into a workshop-style section designed to help couples reflect, communicate, and take practical steps forward. Readers will also find short reflection sections called Accelerators that include Scripture insights, prayers, and simple action steps.

Rooted in biblical truth and lived experience, Letting Go is ideal for couples facing infidelity recovery, emotional wounds, or marriage restoration. It also serves pastors, counselors, and small groups. The message is clear: marriage restoration is possible-not through willpower or control, but through surrender, healing, and faith in God's process.